H's first 3 days of school update

Day 1: 1 hour - 15 minutes in class room with teacher, 45 minutes on playground with other kids - went well although a couple of times she got a little overwhelmed and wanted to sit on Dad's lap
Day 2: 2.5 hours - in classroom with other students and on playground - all with mom - was very needy
Day 3 (today) - 3.5 hours - was needy in classroom with mom. Mom leaves. Harper does great. Mom and dad are torn between wanting to be needed and wanting her to be happy/independent